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  Happy Valentine's

  Hola everyone:

  I wanted to take a moment and wish everyone and their family a wonderful Valentine's day and I hope you dazzle that special person in your life and remember, make valentine's day everyday :)

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  Happy New Year

  Happy New Year everyone and my all your dreams come true and may god always watch over everyone and your families.

  God bless,

  Angela

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  Give Love to the children

  Give Love to the children Children need love everyday
  Give love to the children Guide them on their way
  Love's like a burning flame consumes all that stands in the way
  
  Love is the only power on earth to take all the hatred away
  GIVE LOVE TO THE CHILDREN set the children free
  To make their own decisions then they will clearly see
  Love is the sun the moon and the stars love is a golden ring
  
  Love is the one thing the whole world desires be it beggar or king
  GIVE LOVE TO THE CHILDREN youth has not long to stay
  Love is a long term investment the best you will find any day
  
  Love like the rising sun takes all the darkness away
  Our children will tell their children and their childrens children will say
  Give love to the children they are our crock of gold
  and if perchance they ever stray they will come back to the fold
  
  Give love to the children the children of today
  Give love to the children and love will come to stay.
  
  Elizabeth Quinn

   

  

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  Here is some more information about adhd and Bipolar

  Here is some more information about adhd and Bipolar

  By Dr. Charles Popper

  Similarities

  Both disorders share many characteristics: impulsivity, inattention, hyperactivity, physical energy, behavioral and emotional lability (behavior and emotions change frequently), frequent coexistence of conduct disorder and oppositional-defiant disorder, and learning problems. Motor restlessness during sleep may be seen in both (children who are bipolar are physically restless at night when "high or manic",though they may have little physical motion during sleep when "low or depressed"). Family histories in both conditions often include mood disorder. Psychostimulants or antidepressants can help in both disorders (that is, depending on the phase of the bipolar disorder). In view of the similarities, it is not surprising that the disorders are hard to tell apart.

  

  Internal

   

   

  Differences

  So what features can help in distinguishing these two disorders? Some distinctions are obvious.

   

  1. Destructiveness may be seen in both disorders but differs in origin. Children who are ADHD often break things carelessly while playing ("non-angry destructiveness"), whereas the major destructiveness of children who are bipolar is not a result of carelessness, but tends to occur in anger. Children who are bipolar may exhibit severe temper tantrums, during which they release manic quantities of physical and emotional energy, sometimes with violence and property destruction.

   

  2. The duration and intensity of angry outbursts and temper tantrums in the two disorders differs. Children who are ADHD usually calm down within 20-30 minutes, whereas children who are bipolar may continue to feel and act angry for over 30 minutes and even for 2-4 hours. The physical energy that a child with ADHD "puts out" during an outburst of anger could be mimicked by an adult who tries to "enact" the tantrum, whereas the energy generated by angry children who are bipolar could not be imitated by most adults without reaching exhaustion within a few minutes.

   

  3. The degree of "regression" during angry episodes is typically more severe for children who are bipolar. It is rare to see an angry child who is ADHD display disorganized thinking, language, and body position, all of which may be seen in angry bipolar children during a tantrum. Children who are bipolar may also lose memory of the tantrum.

   

  4. The "trigger" for temper tantrums is also different in these disorders. Children who are ADHD are typically triggered by sensory and affective overstimulation (transitions, insults), whereas children who are bipolar typically react to limit-setting (i.e., a parental "NO") and conflict with authority figures. A child who is bipolar will often actively seek this conflict with authority.

   

  5. The moods of children who have ADHD or bipolar disorder may change quickly, but children with ADHD do not generally show dysphoria (depression) as a predominant symptom. Irritability is particularly prominent in children who are bipolar, especially in the morning on arousal. Children with ADHD tend to arouse quickly and attain alertness within minutes, but children with mood disorders may show overly slow arousal (including several hours of irritability or dysphoria, fuzzy thinking or "cobwebs", and somatic complaints such as stomach aches and headaches) upon awakening in the morning.

   

  6. Sleep symptoms in children who are bipolar include severe nightmares (explicit gore, bodily mutilation). Additional information on the specific content of these dreams and why children do not freely reveal these dreams is available in another article by Charles Popper (Diagnostic Gore in Children's Nightmares). Children who are ADHD mainly show difficulty going to sleep, whereas children who are bipolar are more apt to have multiple awakenings each night or have fears of going to sleep (both of which may be related to the dream content described above).

   

  7. The ability to learn in children who are ADHD is often compromised by the coexistence of specific learning disabilities, whereas learning in children who are bipolar is more likely compromised by motivational problems. On the other hand, children who are bipolar are more able to use motivation to overcome inattention; they can stay tuned to an awesome TV show for long periods of time, but children who are ADHD (even if interested) may not stay involved, follow the plot or even stay in the room (especially during commercials).

   

  8. Children who are bipolar often show giftedness in certain cognitive functions, especially verbal and artistic skills (perhaps with verbal precocity and punning evident by age 2 to 3 years).

   

  9. In an interview room, children who are bipolar often demonstrate dysphoric, rejecting, or hostile responses during the first few seconds of meeting. Children who are ADHD, on the other hand, are more likely to be pleasant or at least non-hostile at first meeting, and if they are in a noisy location, they may immediately show symptoms of hyperactivity or impulsively. Children who are bipolar are also often "interview intolerant". They try to disrupt or get out of the interview, ask repeatedly when the interview will end, or even insult the interviewer. The child who is ADHD, on the other hand, may get frustrated, bored, or more impulsive, but usually without direct challenging the interview or the interviewer.

   

  10. The misbehavior of children who are ADHD is often accidental. If they crash into a wall (or a limit or an authority figure), it is often due to oblivious inattentiveness. The child who is bipolar, in the other hand, is more likely to crash into a wall with intent, for the sake of challenging its presence, Children who are bipolar are highly aware of "the wall" and are sensitive to ways of creating the biggest feeling of impact or challenge to it.

  11. The child who is ADHD may stumble into a fight, whereas the child who is bipolar will look for a fight and enjoy the power struggle. While a child who is ADHD may engage in self-endangering behavior without noticing the danger, the child who is bipolar enjoys the danger and seeks it out. The child who is bipolar is intentionally dare-devilish (yet needle phobia is quite prevalent). In general, the danger-seeking is grandiosity ("I'm invincible") in the child who is bipolar and inattentiveness in the child who is ADHD.

   

  12. In the child who is bipolar, danger-seeking grandiosity, energized giggling, and sexual hyperawareness may be seen early in the preschool years, and persist into adolescence and adulthood.

   

  13. The natural course of ADHD is chronic and continuous, but tends toward improvement. There may be periods of worsening, however, during situational or developmental stress, or if a coexisting conduct disorder worsens. Children with bipolar disorder may or may not show clear behavioral episodes or cycles, but they do tend to exhibit increasingly more severe or dramatic symptoms over the course of years, particularly as the child becomes larger and the impulsivity becomes more difficult to contain.

   

  14. Children with ADHD do not exhibit psychotic (thoughts and behavior reveal a loss of contact with reality) symptoms unless thy have coexisting psychotic depression, preschizophrenia, a drug-induced psychosis, a psychotic grief reaction. Children with bipolar disorder may, on the other hand, exhibit gross distortions in perceiving reality or in interpreting affective (emotional) events. They may even exhibit paranoid-like thinking or openly sadistic impulses.

   

  15. Lithium treatment generally improves bipolar disorder but has no or little effect on ADHD.

   

  The Coexistence of ADHD and Bipolar Disorder

  Children may have ADHD, bipolar disorder, or unipolar disorder (depression), and some children have a combination of ADHD and bipolar disorder or ADHD and unipolar disorder (depression). A child who has either bipolar disorder or unipolar disorder, but not ADHD, may be misdiagnosed ADHD, however, because both the bipolar and unipolar disorders may include symptoms of inattention, impulsivity, and even hyperactivity. There is concern that ADHD is being overdiagnosed and bipolar disorder underdiagnosed in the population of children.

  
   

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  A Child's Version of ADHD

  A Child's Version of ADHD

  What is ADHD?
  Do we know?
  Do we understand?
  We do!
  Who are you?
  We here you ask,
  We are the children given this task!
  Task!
  We here you cry
  Yes task we reply,
  A task that eventually no one will deny.
  
  We are the children, who can explain,
  We are the little people who have to explain again & again in vain.
  Explain what? we hear you say,
  Our disorder
  Or so you say!.
  
  First of all you must understand this wasn't our fault it wasn't planned.
  We were born this way, so you see and "no" mum didn't drop me from her knee.
  This was natures way it was meant to be, and Mother Nature chose little old me.
  Cruel! We hear you say,
  Well Mother nature has her way.
  
  There are things that we don't understand, like what Mother nature has planned.
  When you first here ADD you wonder just what it might be,
  Is it catching we here you ask "no" you silly ass.
  
  As you go through life you begin to understand that we are not the silly ones, as originally planned.
  We are the children on everyone's mind,
  We are the children who sit back and see
  All the adults argue over me.
  
  "Argue" we hear you shout
  "yes we reply"
  Argue with something that you cant see,
  Argue with the unknown
  "that's me".
  Its you the adults the ones that are here, who live with this disorder
  Us we have no fear.
  
  We are the ones who have lots of joy,
  Playing on our playstations "boy oh boy"
  Whilst we are doing this you see all the adults are fighting over "me".
  "Fighting" you ask
  what do you mean?
  Why cant we work together as a team?.
  
  I come home from school, and go on my machine mum is on the phone to Dr Doreen,
  "he needs a psychiatrist" I hear her shout,
  "he needs help & there's no doubt"
  who needs help? I reply
  me
  why?
  
  I come downstairs and have my tea,
  Away I go again and play happily, mum is on the phone again, this time to Dr Bell,
  "I do not understand this ADD" I hear her yell,
  "is there nothing that we can do"
  no my dear I'm afraid it is left up to you!,
  the research team are trying with all their might, to tackle the unknown its fight, fight, fight.
  
  I come downstairs to get a little drink, I have a little chuckle and a little think.
  Forgive me if this is way off line, but would it not be easier to take the time, for all those adults to speak to me
  After all
  It is me who lives with ADD.
  
  They are the ones who argue all day!
  They are the ones who wonder every day!
  They are the ones who spend thousands of pounds!
  They are the ones who walk the grounds!.
  
  We are the ones who play all day!
  We are the ones who get by every day!
  We are the ones who live with ADD!
  "please don't avoid me"
  "just ask me"

  By Sharon Kilday

  
   

  Posted August 28, 2009 2:04 PM
  
  

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